Conventional Styles in How to Command and Master your Emotions
Self Help Learning
A test in growing
Consider a set of aspects of human makeup so that you can see how it reflects on the emotions. Consider how these elements of human makeup targets the emotions. Consider how they either puts, you in command or hinder you from progress. Think of the list as a building block and start building from scratch. What we are about to do together is to build and develop your persona, so that you can achieve in life by comprehending you first. We are working within and learning to understand more effectively and honestly while facing our fears and reality.
Conservative – Traditional – Conventional – Unadventurous – Conformist – Traditionalist – Old School – Avant-garde
Traditional or traditionalist is the process of establishing one’s role in life, which is a honorable quality, yet theorists believe that due to the change in time, this is a flaw in personalities. This is unrealistic, and not true. (I.e. unless you conformed to wrong customs and beliefs with no facts to back you) A conservative, traditional personality type is not, necessarily unadventurous; rather these people do not set self up for dangers or falls. This is not a bad quality. AS you consider the meanings of this type of personality trait, or style, consider the following list to see where it fits into the equation. As you move along start the development process, since this will take you to the steps in building the mind.
Social Issues – Relating – community – laws – rules, policy
How do you fit into society? How do you relate with society? Do you conform to their rules although their rules are wrong? Do you listen when the rules are correct and factual based? Do you work hard to change laws that are against nature? What type of social people do you relate to and are these people positive influences? How does the questions and meaning help you to develop and gain control of your mind?
Morals – ethnic – morality – principals
What is your ethnic standing? Do you know Morality is outdated, since it composes virtue, honesty, integrity, godliness, probity, decency, and honor? Do you see how it is becoming outdated? Do you see that sometimes you have to change your thinking, rather than conforming to someone else’s way of thinking? Do you see that you have to cling to your own beliefs regardless of what society tells you? Do you see principals as a leadership quality?
Religions – Faith – belief – creed – religious conviction
Think of your religion and consider doubts? Do you have concrete evidence that your religion is backing its beliefs, faith, creeds, and religions convictions of facts? Alternatively, do think that misleads are in your way of growing emotional stable? If you have doubts, what level of effort are you willing to put in to removing those doubts? Are you afraid to face your fears? Are you willing to get the facts although it may feel uncomfortable? Are you willing to go beyond the teachers head to prove the doubts and not concern self with how people view you?
Respect – admiration – high regards – deference – esteem – reverence – value
Ideas Developed – facts – truth – realistic
Homesick (Nostalgic) – inner needs
Needs – wants – desires – wishes – requirements
Understand – appreciate – recognize – know – value – identify – empathize
Loyalty – devotion – faithfulness – trustworthiness – constancy – reliable – steadfast – dependable – fidelity
Change – Are you afraid of changes? Are you willing to grow with changes?
Avoidance – Escape – evasion – prevention – averting – forestall
Dependent – reliant – needy – humility
Trust – faith – belief – conviction – expectations – confident – hope – reliance
New – another – additional – extra – further – original – novel – fresh – modern
Strange – odd – outlandish – perplex – astonishing – funny – surprise – curious – foreign – different – novel – new – exotic – eccentric – bizarre – peculiar
Fear – terror – horror – alarm – trepidation – dread – panic – apprehensive – phobia – worry – concern – anxiety – nightmare
Easy – simple – trouble-free – effortless – undemanding – straightforward – uncomplicated – tranquil – laid-back – relaxed – comfortable – calm
Difficult – tricky – hard – thorny – complex – intricate – demanding – arduous – tough – challenging – strenuous – problematical – testing – grim
Confusion – misunderstood – mystification – perplex – puzzle – uncertain – disorder – turmoil – mayhem
Developmental transitional – Developing – growing – learning – characteristic – psychological – account
Stress – trauma – anxiety – pressure – nervous tensions – emphasis – weight – urgency – tension – highlight
Problems – evils – tribulations – harm
Identity – individuality – uniqueness – distinct – characteristics – self – personality
Now, I want you to spot the positive meanings in each of these traits of human kind, and I want you to start building them and incorporating them into your person. Review carefully the negative and see how it can help you to grow and command and master the emotions, while considering what you can do to eliminate problem areas.